Sunday, November 15, 2015

Sissy's Flight


Sissy arrived at the airport early, she hated flying and was really nervous about arriving at her destination in one piece; both physically and emotionally. The past week had been rough for her, she had booked this flight just yesterday and even as she laid her head on the pillow last night she wasn't sure it was the right thing to do. 

 

The night was long for Sissy, she tossed and turned, even waking up in a cold sweat after having one of those dreams, the kind that make you question reality and just where you are. She had argued with Jayme again right before she went to sleep, the same kind of argument that they had been having for the last year and a half. Sissy thought that maybe she shouldn't go, maybe she should just give up and hang up on their relationship the way he had hung up on her last night.

 

It was just the week before he had taken off for New York while she was sleeping.  It was another one of his insecurities that made him run and Sissy, in response to his running again, refused to talk to him. She was too hurt, too angry and she knew that if she spoke to him her resolve would crumble; she would let him back into her heart. She knew this because it was what had been happening for the last six months. Jayme would get upset over something silly and he would run, but this last time was very different, so different in fact that Sissy didn't know if she could or would get past it.

 

Their initial conversation this time was nothing more than screaming. Sissy felt frustrated, more than normal, and she needed to be heard. That was Jayme's downside; his ears were always obscured by his mouth. It was impossible for him to hear Sissy when all he did was talk. It seemed like he was so obsessed with getting respect for himself that he forgot that it had to be given to be received. Sissy certainly didn't feel as if Jayme respected her, most of the time she felt like his chattel.

 

There was a moment as she walked through the passageway to board the plane that Sissy thought about turning around, going back to her car and just going home. She glanced over her shoulder to see how many people she would have to cut through to get back to the terminal. She hung on to the railing that ran the length of the passage, took a deep breath and steadied herself, thinking that one deep breath would get her on the plane. The other passengers that were boarding the flight passing her by, some just glancing in her direction while others looked through her. She was in Zone 1 on this leg of the flight and she knew she needed to decide quickly, so Sissy forced the courage to pick up her feet and place them one in front of the other.

 

Once on the plane Sissy sat down and stowed her carry on under the seat in front of her, it was all she brought with her this time. That one small bag contained nothing more than the bare necessities. In part she thought that her choice of luggage had signaled what her mind had already decided, and yet she hung on to hope. She hoped that there would be more change in their relationship than what she had packed in that small carry on. Her first flight to New York had been very different, she had over packed, was prepared for all the possibilities the relationship might hold. This was a bag of uncertainty, a quick escape bag if need be.

 

Fastening her seat belt tightly, she again thought back to the first flight to New York to meet Jayme. It seemed like eons ago, but it was just a little over two years prior. She was full of excitement and anticipation that day, looking forward to meeting Jayme after having spent weeks and endless hours talking to him over the phone. This time was different and Jayme was different, she was even different, but yet they were still the people that they had been in the beginning. She began to think about all the things that had happened this past year and how the difference in Jayme had begun to affect her self-esteem.

 

Sissy wanted familiarity in her life, she needed consistency and she had none of that with Jayme. One minute he was loving and caring and the next he was a screaming loon. The things that angered him were things that Sissy didn't see or feel and she didn't understand where they came from. Her time with Jayme included such isolation from the world. Most days she didn't want to leave her house because she worried that they would fight. In some ways this suited her fine since she was a homebody, but there were times that it annoyed her. 

 

Annoyance became somewhat the hallmark of Sissy's face. People often commented that she seemed tired or as if she wasn't feeling well. One excuse after another would come from her lips, maybe because if she uttered the words, let them cross her lips it would be like lava erupting from a volcano, burning and destroying everything in its path. Sissy knew that she would just tuck her feelings into her pocket and keep them there hidden from the world, she knew that on the outside she would continue to be the clown, entertaining those around her while all the while she was boiling inside.

 

The boiling emotions inside of Sissy wouldn't ease up this day for she had a lot of things to think about, including changing planes. She knew she had another chance to back out, that her connecting flight was at an airport just three hours from home. She could rent a car there and drive home if she needed to and that gave her some comfort. Jayme had promised her that he would not yell or accuse her if she came, that he missed her and he wanted their relationship to work. Sissy wanted desperately to believe him because she loved him.   What didn't give her comfort were Jayme's promises, she knew, from their past, that they were just words. Things he would say but wouldn't be able to follow through on. 

 

As the first leg of her flight ended Sissy worried that she wouldn't make the connection. She had broken her foot a few weeks earlier and was still hobbled by the pain and her connecting flight was scheduled to leave in less than a half of an hour. She felt certain that missing that flight would be a sign, one that would tell her to go home. Sissy looked for signs in everything, something that would move her in a certain direction.   She had been on the last seat on this flight and thought that it had represented her relationship with Jayme, that she had always taken a back seat to the pain in his life, that no matter how much she loved him or how hard she tried to please him it wasn't enough to cure his pain. So, Sissy waited for all the passengers to disembark from the flight, just as she had waited for Jayme to see her for who she was, so that she could make a mad dash for her connection.

 

Sissy had felt so connected to Jayme when they first met; just like the two flights she was to take that day. It was a connection that would bring them together. Their lives had been similar and yet very different, but they were lives that led them down a path that would bring them together. She wanted to be together with Jayme, the way they were in the beginning, to have that passion again, to have him adore her and for her adoration of him to continue. She thought about the fear of missing her connection again and for a brief moment, as she hobbled towards her terminal, she thought about Jayme and how he must feel somewhat like she did at that moment, fearful that if he did not control her actions that he would miss his emotional connection to her.

 

Sissy had texted Jayme when the first leg of her flight landed and let him know that she was rushing to make the connection. She knew that she needed to make contact with him as soon as she figured out if she would be able to get onto her flight. She had zigzagged through the airport narrowly avoiding being run over by a transit car, taking escalators and walkways to make it on time. As she reached the gate they were already boarding the flight and her zone was being called. She knew she had made it, and for a split second she thought about just sitting down and letting the plane take off. She was out of breath, her foot hurt and she was an emotional wreck. Ultimately, it was the thought of Jayme holding her that pushed her feet forward as she showed her boarding pass.

 

Again, Sissy was in the back of the plane, a place she had now gotten used to, but at least she was on a larger flight on this leg of her journey and there wouldn't be another passenger overflowing into her seat, something she hated even though she was thin, she just didn’t like other people to infringe into her space.  She leaned up against the window, peering out into the abyss of her own thoughts. Tears wanted to come to her and she held them back, they were tears of fear and frustration. She didn't know how this would all pan out for her, their relationship or Jayme. And though he didn't believe it, she loved him and was concerned for him. His temper and anxiety were rooted deeply in his soul, at first her love seemed to make him happy, but something had changed in him.  His happiness seemed to be overshadowed by thoughts that she could not control or change and it scared her for him and for their relationship.

 

She sat there quiet throughout the entire flight, only glancing over briefly at the elderly couple sitting next to her and noticed that the gentleman was holding his wife's hand. That small act of reassurance sent her further into her own pain and memories of how Jayme had been like that in the beginning. She longed for that tenderness in him again, that side of him that was about the love. There had been so much anger between them and she was hurt beyond any hurt she had known before. It was hard for her to see past that, past the accusations Jayme had made. He had promised her that if she got on this flight that things would be different and that he wouldn't argue. She wanted so badly to believe him, but her experiences told her that his pain, his past and all the hurt he had felt wouldn't allow him to keep his promise to her.  Her love for him drove her this time, it overshadowed her fears and it gave her hope for she truly wanted to believe in him. She wanted to believe that, as he had told her, they could get past this.

 

Her trust was starting to trail off, and Sissy knew that in her heart; she knew that Jayme could only contain himself for so long. As the pilot announced the impending landing Sissy looked out the window, trying to find a familiar landmark in order to get her bearings, set her mind straight. She struggled to see something, anything that would give her peace of mind, the ability to relax. She couldn't find anything and the apprehension grew inside of her to the point that she felt sick to her stomach. Her heart began to pound as the wheels of the plane hit the ground and then a sense of relief as the pilot announced a brief delay in getting to the gate. Sissy longed to see Jayme, to feel his lips against hers and to know his love, but the fear inside overwhelmed that desire.

 

As the plane slowly approached the gate the pilot announced that passengers could use their phones. Quickly, Sissy turned on her phone and shot a text to Jayme saying she was on the ground, but he already knew that, he had been waiting for her, watching the leader boards for information about the flight. That was the Jayme she knew and loved, the man that was full of anticipation and hope. She thought back to a time he had told her that he slept with hope and faith and she had jokingly laughed and asked him if it had been at the same time. The thought of that day washed the apprehension away from Sissy, for it was on that day that Jayme had given her the most passionate kiss of her life. The thought of sharing another kiss like that with him, to feel his soul and heart fill hers again was all she wanted from him. 

 

Sissy's apprehension began to give way to anticipation, longing to see the man that she adored. Her worries, as she exited the plane and walked through the terminal, we're diminishing with every step she took.  She finally reached the top of the escalator, a place she was vaguely familiar with as it had been from that place nearly two years ago that she first laid eyes on Jayme. She remembered thinking then how handsome he was, how his beautiful heart had come through to his external being. Today, as she stood atop the perch of the escalator she had that same feeling, she knew why she loved him and she knew that she missed him. He smiled at her as he caught her coming down to him and she at him as she was descending once again into his arms. And just as she had two years prior, Sissy felt as if the wings of her angel were wrapped around her, shielding her from the world.
 
Thank you Chris Pierce for the music.
 
 
 
"The times that our emotional gas tanks run empty are the times when we have no explanation for the things that just are."  (me 2015) 

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